Dr. Robert Glover – All The Way In – Relationship Essentials for Men

Dr. Robert Glover – All The Way In – Relationship Essentials for Men

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Online Course for 8 Weeks

Dr. Robert Glover, instructor and author of No More Mr. Nice Guy

Dr. Glover provides a new paradigm in this eight-week online program in which men are urged to assume an active leadership position in their relationship by becoming more mindful, honest, and transparent.

Men may behave with love and integrity in establishing a tone that encourages open communication, issue resolution, reciprocity, trust, and sexual desire by becoming more present and mindful in their intimate connection.

In other words, the purpose of this workshop is to teach guys how to show up and take responsibility for developing a successful relationship.

Men will learn in this class: • How to become mindful and present in their intimate connection.

How to Become an Effective “Ascertainer”
How to become more honest and open.
How to Establish Healthy Boundaries
How to design a wonderful life and allow their partner to be the “icing” on the cake.
How to lead with love and honesty by setting the tone.
How to accomplish what is difficult rather than what is convenient.
How to maximize their relationship’s sexual potential.

While All the Way In is geared toward guys, women are welcome to attend. It is beneficial for women to understand the type of integrated man and healthy leader their spouse is developing.

Women will learn the following in this class:

What their relationship looks like when their partner becomes present.
How to trust and relinquish control.
How to take part in a more reciprocal connection.
How to ask for what they want in a way that increases their chances of receiving it.
How to Prepare for Increased Sexual Passion

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Take Your Relationship to a Higher Level

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Who Will Gain From the Course?

A relationship is analogous to a shark. It must always be moving forward or it will perish.” – Woody Allen (Annie Hall)

Straight, gay, and lesbian men and women are welcome to enroll in this eight-week online course. Despite the fact that part of the content concentrates on “male” and “female” roles in heterosexual relationships, the ideas presented in All The Way In may be forcefully implemented by both men and women in non-traditional relationships.

It makes no difference whether you are straight, gay, or lesbian; someone must lead and someone must follow. Someone needs to throw the ball and someone has to catch it. While these positions can be flexible and fluid, someone must step forward to get things started and keep things on track. Relationships, regardless of sexual orientation, work best when the “man” steps up and takes the lead in an integrated and loving way.

MEN – Your relationship is dying if you aren’t the one driving it ahead.

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Whatever your present relationship looks like, you can step up and give it the opportunity it deserves.

You have a positive connection with your spouse and are dedicated to making it the best it can be.
You are in a new relationship and want to take the initiative in determining whether the individual is the greatest potential match for you.
Your relationship is having some difficulties. You are aware that your Nice Guy characteristics are adding to your issues. You want to push yourself while still giving your relationship a chance to thrive.
Your relationship is on the verge of disintegration, yet you feel there is something worth fighting for. You want to make certain that you have done all possible to give it one more opportunity before giving up.

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How the Class Functions

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When you sign up for this course, you will be given a connection to the class website. A new lesson will be uploaded to the class website each week of the session. The majority of lessons are delivered in the form of a written “lecture” in PDF format. The classes and assignments are available for download and printing. Some video and audio recordings may also be used in the course.

The class website will also have a class forum where you may publish your homework assignment replies. You will also be able to read and react to other students’ contributions as well as the instructor’s remarks.

Depending on the amount of class postings, the teacher will visit the class forum one or two times every week. The teacher will comment on the posts and may set extra homework tasks.

You may work at your own pace and read and post in the class forum. There is no established schedule for classes. You can join the course at any time and from any location.

This course is restricted to 100 individuals to ensure the instructor’s undivided attention and the most possible benefit to each student.

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All the Way Through Lessons

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Lesson 1: Why Women and Men Are Equally Bad at Intimacy, and Why Your Relationship’s Health Is in Your Hands

Lesson 2: Why did you and your partner collaborate to build the relationship you have?

Lesson 3: Transform Your Relationship Into a Personal Growth Machine

Lesson 4: “Ascertainer”: How to Become the Man Your Partner and You Want You to Be

Lesson 5: Masculine and Feminine: Why Do Women Do What They Do?

Lesson 6: From Salsa to Dog Whisperer: Setting the Tone and Leading with Integrity and Love

Lesson 7: Love Your Partner Enough Not to Allow Her to Mistreat You

Lesson 8: Follow Three Simple Rules to Transform Your Sex Life in 24 Hours or Less.

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Extra Content

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“What Does It Mean to Set the Tone and Take the Lead?” is a free webinar.

“Inviting a Woman to Be the Icing on Your Really Great Cake” Podcast

“All The Way In Paradoxes”

“Be the Man a Woman Desires”

“Breathing Diaphragmatically”

“Revolutionize Your Sexual Life in 24 Hours or Less”

When you sign up for “All The Way In,” you will receive more free podcasts.

Creating Positive Emotional Tension by Sexually Opening Up a Woman

Q&A: All the Way In

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Q. What is the timetable for the classes? Is there a specific time that I must be at class? How long will it take?

You will be able to download a prepared PDF lesson including lecture and homework assignments every week during class. You will also be given a link to a class forum where you may submit your comments to each homework assignment and see the views from other students as well as mine. I personally enter into the class forum one or two times each week, depending on the quantity of class postings, to make comments and occasionally offer additional homework.

You may work at your own speed and check in to the class forum at any time to read and post. There is no established schedule for classes. Actual class attendance will most likely take between 90 minutes and two hours every week. You have complete control over how much time you spend using the ideas of All The Way In to your intimate relationship.

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1. Is your All the Way In class appropriate for a currently single man who wants to learn about what makes relationships work and why previous relationships have not worked?
2. The class is perfect for single guys who want to start from day one of meeting a woman to set the tone for creating a healthy relationship. The better you understand how healthy, passionate relationships work and what it takes to create them, the more effective you will be in your dating. You will set the tone and take the lead from the very beginning and get to rejection quickly with women who aren’t a good match for you. All The Way In is a great road map for single men who want a great relationship with a great woman.

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1. Isn’t it dangerous to make generalizations which assume a certain gender is better at something than the other? It sounds like the 1950’s all over again.
2. I understand the danger of generalizing, especially with something as complex and fluid (and politically and socially volatile) as gender and sexuality. I’m going to do it anyway. I understand that not all men are alike and not all women are alike. I understand that all situations are different. I understand that men and women can consciously swap roles. I understand that there are women who are more masculine than feminine and men who are more feminine than masculine. I understand that women can have male type brains (engineers) and men can have female type brains (decorators).

In spite of the shortcomings of generalizing about gender and sexual orientation, the fact is, someone has to lead and someone has to follow. In general, the game doesn’t work well with two pitchers and no catchers or two bottoms and no tops.

In spite of the prevailing philosophy that relationships should be 50/50, cars still come with one steering wheel and televisions with one remote. Someone has to drive and someone has to click. It is okay to take turns, but it still works best when each person in a relationship has a default position and the person with the natural “male” or masculine nature sets the tone and takes the lead with consistency. This is what the “feminine” craves.

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1. Have you received much backlash from women as the result of teaching men to take control?
2. I don’t teach men to control anything, especially another person. Control is an illusion and attempts to control a partner are unloving. When I encourage men to set the tone and take the lead, I am inviting them to be conscious and present in their relationship. This is the greatest act of love and integrity a man can offer his partner.

I often use the metaphor of dance. There is no control. There is a lead and a follow. Each person knows their role. When the lead does his job and the follow lets him, the dance is beautiful and exhilarating for both people involved.

In general, women like what I teach men. Many are tired of being the gatekeepers of their intimate relationships. They are tired of driving the bus.  They are tired of being the “lead”. They are tired of feeling tired. They are tired of being asked, “what do you want to do tonight?” They are ready for a different plan.

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1. I see that your class is open to women. What will women get out of the course?

While All the Way In is directed toward men, women are invited to participate in the course. I think it is helpful for women to know the kind of integrated man and healthy leader their partner is learning to become. In this class, women will learn:

What it looks like when their partner becomes present in their relationship
• How to trust and let go of control.

• How to participate in a more fully reciprocal relationship.
• How to ask for what they want in a way that has a high likelihood of them getting it.
• How to welcome increased sexual passion.

It is also a powerful statement of love and courage for a man to ask his wife or girlfriend to join him in this class. If your partner knows how you are being challenged to lead, it raises your accountability and her expectations of what kind of man you have the possibility of being. It takes balls for a guy to make himself this vulnerable, but that is what this course is all about!