J Canipe Yates PhD – Changing Limiting Beliefs About Seduction

J Canipe Yates PhD – Changing Limiting Beliefs About Seduction

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Limiting Changes BELIEFS ABOUT SEXUALITY:

How to Recognize, Evaluate, and Change Hidden Beliefs That May Be Holding You Back From Your Goals

For the last 16 years, I’ve been listening to workshop participants; not just those in which I’ve participated, but also those in which I’ve attended with Richard Bandler, John Lavalle, John Latourette, and others in Technology, and Dan Kennedy, Joe Polish, and Jay Abraham in Marketing. The feedback has been constant. The guests are satisfied with the information bundle provided and are stuck.

The response has been consistent in my 25 years in the direct mail industry, marketing home study courses and talking to clients and potential customers who call for help.

THE FEEDBACK: The knowledge bundle I purchased is fantastic and I cognitively grasp it, however I am not delivering the outcomes I desire. Something is getting in the way.

I received a phone call recently from a young man. He purchased the applied NLP SS course some time ago. He practiced and got highly skilled with the stuff. He discovered the ideal woman for him. She was more attractive, had a better job, and made more money than he did. They moved in together and were happy for five years; so happy that she and he wanted to marry. He developed cold feet as the date approached. He adored her and was irritated by his own actions. They sought the advice of a marriage counselor.

During the session, the counselor inquired about any disagreements, arguments, or fights. Each responded yes, but they were little and primarily about his refusal to marry when he claimed he did.

“Well, it becomes a LOT WORSE after you get married,” the counselor responds.

This elicited a strong reaction from him. They did not marry; instead, they divorced. Her biological clock was ticking, and she desired to marry.

You may have seen by now that his ideas about marriage eventually impeded him from getting the one thing he desired.

During our talk, I asked several questions regarding his upbringing and marriage experiences.

Bottom line: He had no positive recollections of marriage; none from his parents, none from his religious experiences, none from school, and none that registered with him for marriage.

Typically, the first big incident linked to marriage is unfavorable and establishes a belief, a filter, or a prejudice. A belief that now seeks reinforcement and dismisses any positive experiences as unimportant or the exception to the rule, and so unreal.

There’s more to it. After losing the perfect lady and failing to see the marriage belief impact properly, the brain begins to rationalize. He began to feel that he had blown it; that he would never be able to find another, so why bother? He proceeded to punish himself for what he justified as his major blunder. Remember, they were in love and wanted to marry. She began to suspect it was about her… That’s a different story.

I believe we resolved this over the phone. I haven’t heard anything from him since.

So here’s a hint for you. If you’ve bought a course from us or someone else and aren’t getting the results you desire, start searching for patterns, patterns of behavior, patterns of speech, patterns of responses from individuals, and so on.

Another caller the other day expressed a desire to salvage his six-year marriage. After some discussion, it became clear that many people (including his wife’s whole family) felt he was a complete jerk. “So, now that you understand and admit that you are an A..hole, how are you going to learn not to be one?” I said. He will get back to me on that.

Enough…

In my new course, which was taped live in London, you will receive practical tools as well as loads of examples from the participants. All of the tools you’ll need for the rest of your life are crammed into 12 hours on 6 DVDs.

When you receive this course, open it with a pen and pad nearby. There’s a lot of writing as you are given an organized strategy to get there.

Remember that if you are not truthful, you are simply fooling yourself. It requires more than academic comprehension to actually change. To begin the course, you must complete the exercises, as well as daily workouts involving your body and conduct.

Until then…

Canipe, Yates J.

People frequently inquire about warranties. We assure them: We promise that you will WORK. If you return the course, you will know you DID NOT WORK.

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