Zan Perrlon – The Monte Carlo Sessions Volume 2

The Beneficial
Harsh truths that must be faced, a mature perspective on relationships, and placing dating and relationships in the context of life
The Downside
Some rambling’ambiguous’ advice
To summarize
A product that will make you reconsider your views on female relationships and how they relate to your life. Most applicable if you are in your 30s or older, have a mature and long-term approach to relationships, have a lot of dating success yet are unsatisfied with relationships.
A COMPLETE ANALYSIS

This is a recent recording of a 2010 presentation by Zan Perrion. Despite the fact that it is titled Monte Carlo Sessions Part II, it is not from the same seminar as the first Monte Carlo Sessions audio course, which took place in 2008. It includes the original Monte Carlo Sessions as well as two audio CDs (Sessions 5 and 6). (Sessions 1–4).

Contextualizing Zan Perrion’s Advice

If you’re not familiar with Zan Perrion, you can discover more about him by reading his profile. He is more mature (in his 40s), experienced, and focused on living a full life and having meaningful relationships than many dating gurus (far away from the idea that life is just about picking up girls in bars). Do you enjoy David Deida’s novels like Way of the Superior Man? Zan’s painting develops and surrounds comparable concepts and ideas while also presenting a completely unique ‘romantic’ take on life. I would advise anyone interested in creating more meaningful and long-term relationships with women to research both of these persons and their advice.

Note: If you are still in your early 20s or late teens, Zan is unlikely to be able to teach you what you want to learn – life is a journey with specific needs at each stage. While his advice is incredibly beneficial to men of all ages, you may not be ready to receive it if you are still in the early stages of your manhood.

Diverse Views on Attracting Women

Zan spends the entirety of session 5 talking and showing how he approaches women and understands the process of attraction between men and women.

Many instructors of pick-up artist-based dating advise disagree with him, particularly when it comes to who has power and how much control you have over the attraction process. Most pick up artist techniques emphasize ‘managing’ situations, whereas Zan Perrion’s encourages you to ‘let go’ more.

Attraction is kept simple and straightforward by focusing on the few characteristics that Zan believes essential (which includes a much smaller set of things to keep track of than most approaches to attracting women).

Some of the good pick-up artist tactics, in my opinion, will gain you better short-term success with women (especially if you are less experienced with women), but Zan’s is the road to long-term dating satisfaction. This is both important knowledge and a challenge for folks who have been practicing pick up artistry for a while.

Uncomfortable Reality

One of the key takeaways from these sessions is that there are “No silver bullets” for enhancing your dating life in the long run. He discusses the difficulties he sees with’self growth,’ and how he feels men actually change themselves. Other essential perspectives he offers include aspects of your journey in relationships and with yourself, which will be a continuous work process.

It is one of the most eloquent depictions of the process of improving our long-term relationships with women I have heard.

This material is valuable for individuals who have been exposed to dating advice for a long time but have yet to take the jump to better their dating life (if you’ve been exposed to dating advice for years and nothing has changed – that’s you). It will also provide helpful recommendations to those who, while having improved their dating life in many aspects, still feel that they are ‘not quite there,’ particularly in relationships, and that there is some magic bullet that has to click into place.

Relationship and Life Journey Philosophy

In session 6, Zan discusses how to be happy in your relationships and what “relationships” are. He talks on relationship themes as well as how you view life. He talks about the pickup artist and seduction community movements, as well as how they all fit into his life path.

Personal Application Scenarios

As you might expect, this is a fantastic product, but it isn’t for everyone, depending on what they want and where they are in their learning and progress. I realized that in order to be effective, I needed to attempt to pinpoint precise conditions and situations where you would benefit the most. Here are a few examples:

Men who have been married and divorced previously.
Men in their 30s and up.
Men who want to focus on developing long-term relationships with women.
Men who have had a lot of dating success but are still unhappy.
Men who want to master attraction and relationships (Adding Zan’s perspective will help fill out your understanding of the complete picture – don’t miss it).
Weaker Rambling Sections of the Course

The discourse rambles and loses focus, particularly in session 5, touching on a variety of thoughts about life and how it should be lived.

On the plus side, these are personal to Zan and give insights into his psyche; but, gaining benefit from them is more difficult unless you are committed to studying and adopting Zan’s approach to life and relationships. Most people are not and will disregard this value because it is more difficult to obtain.

As a result, you may become bored and disillusioned with certain sections, as well as puzzled as to where he is going with it.

To summarize

This is a good product that is well worth the time and money invested in it. Is this product suitable for you right now? If you are in your 30s or older, have a mature and long-term approach to relationships, have a lot of dating success but are still unhappy with partnerships, the answer is yes.